Islamic Tips: ONE of the things we constantly try to do is be a better person. That’s because we know that being a better version of
ourselves will help them be more successful in life.
In this article, we’ll help you be a better person. They don’t have to be in the following order of course. You might
not be able to achieve all of these tips but it’s good for you to try. You won’t regret a thing, trust me! And don’t
worry if it takes you some time to carry them out. You’ll be able to accomplish new ones as time passes in’sha’Allah.
Allah won’t change you unless you decide to change. That’s why you need to be willing to change and actually put some
thought and effort into the idea because when there’s a will there’s a way in’sha’Allah. (Islamic Tips)
You can’t expect to change if you keep making excuses for anything that goes wrong with you, because you won’t see
anything that needs to be changed with you that way. You should take accountability for your actions and take responsibility
for your decisions. You shouldn’t blame anyone or anything for your mistakes. Instead, try to learn from your mistakes, which
in turn will help you be a better person.
If you let yourself be angry, your anger will modify your decision-making ability and you’ll start making decisions that aren’t
very rational. Anger is also known for damaging relationships and negatively affects one’s health. So, if you let it overtake you,
it’ll prevent you from improving yourself. It might even get into trouble. I know controlling anger is a difficult task, but if you
try your best to do so you will benefit from great rewards.
In order to become a better person, you should learn to notice yourself and know how you behave in different situations. Then you’ll
know when to improve yourself if you do something improperly, and continue to do what you’re doing right. This point is very important
because you can’t be a better person if you don’t know what you should improve of yourself in the first place.
When you love yourself, you’ll want what’s best for it. Thus, you’ll look for whatever can make it comfortable and content. Learn to accept
yourself for who you are and only then will you be able to enhance it and feel better. Tell yourself that you’re kind and compassionate, that
you’re worthy and important, anything that would make you feel loved and accepted by yourself. You should start by loving yourself because you
won’t be able to love other people if you don’t love yourself first.
Thank Allah for the countless blessings that He showers upon you each and every day, and appreciate what you have instead of obsessing over what you wish
you had. Also thank people for whatever good they do to you and appreciate their thought and effort. (Islamic Tips)
When someone hurts you, try to forgive them. I know that might be hard but just try. If you don’t forgive them for whatever they did and hold that against
them for the rest of your life, you’ll just be hurting yourself more because it’s unhealthy to hold a grudge. That would only affect your body and mind
It’s very important to listen to people. Sometimes when you listen carefully, you’ll learn things that you wouldn’t have known if you haven’t given an ear
to it. Although people these days are always busy and in a rush, try to make some time to listen to others because it will definitely affect your life
Being honest is one of the most important characteristics of a good person. When you’re honest, you’ll feel better about yourself and people will trust
you more because you won’t tell any lies; you’d be straightforward. This way, you’ll feel comfortable about everything you say or do since you know that
you’re not hiding anything and everything is clear and simple. (Islamic Tips)
Helping others is one of the best ways to make you a better person. When you help someone in need you will feel self-content and satisfied by your achievement.
You will realize that what you do is worth something to other people and that you are bringing about good deeds with your help in’sha’Allah.
“The believers, men and women, are Auliya of one another; they enjoin Al-Maruf, and forbid from Al-Munkar; they perform As-Salat, and give the Zakat, and obey
Allah and His Messenger. Allah will have His Mercy on them. Surely Allah is All-Mighty, All-Wise. Allah has promised the believers – men and women, – Gardens
under which rivers flow to dwell therein forever, and beautiful mansions in Gardens of Adn. But the greatest bliss is the Good Pleasure of Allah. That is the
supreme success.” (9:71-72)